Men aren’t always great at articulating when they’re fully ready to commit to you. In all honesty, it can often be up to you to figure out the signs he’s getting attached. Once you can tell, not only does it make you feel more secure, but it can help you solidify your relationship status.
And let’s be real: some guys can be a little sensitive when it comes to defining your relationship status a little too early. If they’re not quite attached yet, it might scare them off and intimidate them if you’re ready and they’re not there yet.
If you’re growing attached yourself, it’s normal to know where he stands. These are all the signs your man is ready to commit and wants to start a real relationship with you..
1. You’re a priority to him. Any man who wants to be with you will make you a priority. No matter what’s going on in his life, he’ll find a way to make time for you. You’ll notice this most when he has to shuffle his schedule around because he wants to be there for you even just for a single date night.
2. He’s there when you’re upset. Guys who aren’t ready to commit won’t be the ones to rush over when something upsetting has happened. That means if he’s coming to soothe you when things get hard, he’s serious about you.
3. He wants to know about your goals and dreams. A guy who wants to be in your future will be curious about what it looks like. He’ll want to know all about your aspirations and where you see your life going. Asking about your dreams and goals in life is a major sign he’s getting attached and is committed to you.
4. He puts forth effort with your friends and family. Think about all the times he’s been around your friends or family, if he’s met them. Was he talkative, asking questions, and seemed genuinely interested in them? If so, he’s probably super attached already.
5. He’d rather spend time with you doing nothing than out with friends. Now, don’t think that just because a guy wants to go be with friends that he’s not attached. This has more to do with the fact that if he’s hanging out with you and gets a call to go out with friends but decides to stay in and cuddle, he’s serious about you.