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Signs You Are Wasting Your Life

A wasted life is only realized at the end of the road, and what usually follows is a myriad of hat ifs’ and should haves’. So how can you tell if you’re not living up to your full potential? The answer to that is simple: introspection. Look at your lifestyle, your attitude towards things, and how you interact with people and your environment. If you notice any of the following signs, chances are you are wasting your life, and it is about time you did something about it.

1. You’re settling for less

There is nothing wrong with being content with what you have, but don’t mistake contentment with fear to achieve more. One of the telltale signs that you’re living below your potential is when “good enough” becomes your standard. When you realize that you no longer care about bettering your status or making the most out of every day, when you are no longer interested in achieving your biggest dreams and becoming who you have always envisioned yourself as, and when you begin to enjoy the status quo, that’s when you’ll know that you have given up trying to live your life the way you want to, and are instead going where the tide will take you.

2. You’re Mortified to leave your Comfort Zone

Human beings are creatures of habit, and once we settle into a routine, it takes so much willpower to break out of it. But the laws of evolution dictate that only those capable of adapting to new environments are able to survive. We’re not talking about survival here, but the same principle applies when it comes to progressing in life. If you’re stuck in your comfort zone, you don’t explore new opportunities, and you don’t take any risks. You cap your progress in life by resisting change and clinging on to what is familiar because familiar is comfortable—nobody wants to live in unfamiliarity. If you are scared to do things that may improve your life simply because you’re not used to doing them, then you will never move forward.

3. You Live to Work

Society has gotten to a point where the only way to measure a person’s success or achievement is by how much work they can get done, a notion that has become such a part of our constitution that we work ourselves to death and call it a life well lived. While there is nothing wrong with earning your keep, living a life that revolves around your job denies you the chance to experience the other joys of life—family, friendship, new experiences, and more importantly, new opportunities.

There is no right way to live life, and there’s no wrong way either. When you look back at your life in your sunset years, the things that seem so important right now may pale in comparison to the things you’ll wish you would have dedicated more of your time to.

4. You spend too Much on Material Things

Even though we may forget the ambitions we had as kids, our subconscious mind doesn’t, and it has very strange ways of expressing this yearning. You find yourself spending too much on unnecessary items of luxury like new watches, the latest smartphones, clothes you did not need but bought anyway because they were on sale, and anything else that satisfies that yearning within us. If your main source of happiness comes from buying or receiving material gifts, this is what your subconscious mind is trying to tell you: you are not doing anything worthwhile with your life; find as many other ways to validate your self-worth as possible.

5. You Prefer to Live in Your Head

If you find it easier to drown in endless thoughts and fantasies instead of interacting with people and appreciating the environment around you, you’re on a path to self-annihilation. Ask any of the great minds of today—the Elon Musks and Richard Bransons—and they will tell you without hesitation the importance of staying grounded in reality. Being a thoughtful person is great, but don’t mistake it with incessantly spending time envisioning things in your mind without ever hoping or planning to put anything into action. You don’t need any experts to tell you that you’re wasting your life building castles in the air.

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