1. They are self-assured. An alpha female is someone who knows who she is and isn’t afraid to be herself. Most of us have two faces, one we show to the world, and one we keep hidden. The key to being an alpha female is to meld those two beings into one.
Although sounding difficult, it is really about seeing those things which you may consider weaknesses about you and consider the fact that they are really positives. For instance, you may be a highly sensitive individual and try hard to hide your feelings. Instead of keeping them hidden, use those sensitive qualities to be empathetic and treat people with respect.
2. They accept who they are. Along the same lines, don’t make excuses for who you are, be proud of your personality and the things you offer to people. If you are constantly thinking you aren’t good enough, it shows to the people around you.
It is hard to convince people to like you when you don’t quite like yourself. Similar to being a salesman who doesn’t believe in the product they sell, success is going to be difficult.
3. They know what they want. The key to being an alpha female is that there are no mincing words. She says what she wants, and she wants what she says. Very few people in life both know what they want and the road that they need to take to get there. Being put together, an alpha female has a plan, is ready to execute it, and continues to grow with each new day.
4. They don’t sweat the small stuff. Women are creatures of habit. We spend a whole lot of time worrying about one thing or another. An alpha female prioritises what is important in life and what is not. Unlike most of us, she doesn’t waste time worrying about things that may or may not happen. Instead she focuses on those things well within her control.
We all know worrying is a useless waste of our mind power, gaining control over it is something that not everyone can do.
5. They are attractive to others. An alpha female doesn’t have to be a 10. Although probably not a two, it isn’t really about her looks as much as it is about the way she carries herself and presents herself to the world.
There is nothing more attractive than someone who exudes self-confidence and strength. Not the type of strength where you wouldn’t want to meet her in a dark alley, but she is the woman who isn’t going to let anyone tell her what to do, who she is, or make her feel less.