1. Men can only focus on one thing at a time, whereas women can multitask.
If you give a man more than one task, he will either have ten projects started and never finished, or he will only do one at a time. Not being able to put his focus into more than one thing at a time, he gets flustered easily, and irritated even more easily, at the slightest distraction. Women, on the other hand, can work on ten different projects at once. They can go from one task to the next and pick up where they left off with ease.
Problems can arise when a guy turns inward rather than being able to deal with multiple problems at once. When he becomes muddled down with something, he is unable to see anything else that is going on around him. Even if the kids are crying and falling apart, the house is seemingly on fire, and his wife is at her wit’s end, he can just sit at the computer and not notice anything else.
It’s important to realise that he most likely isn’t doing it on purpose. He’s just not wired to pay attention to everything going on around him when he’s engrossed in another project.
2. Men show love, whereas women voice love.
When a woman is in love with someone, she can’t stop gushing over it. Wanting to text and talk about her latest crush all day, she can’t vocalise her emotions enough. A guy is not the same. When he is in love with a woman, he won’t tell everyone around him. Instead, he will “do” things for her. If you notice that a guy has changed your washer fluid without being asked to, or if he’s taken the garbage out without being told to, that means he loves you.
Problems can arise when men become overwhelmed by the outpouring of love that a woman bestows on them with words. Not knowing how to voice their own emotions, men often get quiet in response. If you realise that a woman is wired to communicate in a verbal way, while a man is wired to protect and help the lady he loves, that will make it much easier to spot the signs of love on both ends.
3. Men are typically visual creatures when it comes to sex—women, not so much.
Most women get very offended to find that their man has been blowing up their computer watching porn. No matter how much a guy insists that he doesn’t watch it, he does. Men are very visual creatures when it comes to sex. They need the fantasy more than most women do, and become turned on by seeing sexual acts.
Women are more focused on the emotional side of a sexual act. To get in the mood, they need a good mix of erotica and some form of emotional connection. It isn’t that women don’t get excited by porn, but rather, they just need more than the visual experience.
If you want to stop the arguing about his porn-watching habits, try making your own sex tapes and send them to him. Likely, if you give him movies of you, he will get just as turned on watching you do naughty things as he does when he watches porn. If you want to get your woman in the mood, cover her with kisses and praise for all she does for you. Emotionally stimulate her.