Finding that one special woman to be your wife isn’t an easy task. You’ve probably dated a lot of different girls and just couldn’t make it work with them. But maybe that’s because you weren’t looking for a woman who’s wife material but rather, you were just looking for a good time. And there is a major difference between the two. While a woman who is wife material can certainly be super fun and a good time, the girl you look for JUST for a good time usually won’t make a great spouse.
If you’re trying to find a girl to make your wife, you’ll have to look for some very specific qualities. If she doesn’t have these, don’t waste your time trying to put a ring on it. Here’s the type of woman you need as your forever person.
1. She has her own life. You want a girl who is happy in her own life and is doing her own thing. These girls usually have the least amount of emotional problems because they don’t rely on anyone for happiness. That’s the type of girl you want to marry.
2. She’s funny. And this isn’t just meant for you to go out and find the funniest girl according to other people. However, YOU have to find her funny. Your sense of humor has to match hers because that’s super important in a long-term relationship. You want to marry the girl that makes you laugh until your stomach hurts and vice versa.
3. She has ambitions. Now, a lot of guys will call an ambitious girl intimidating, but don’t you want one of those? Don’t you want a girl with dreams and drive? She’ll be kicking life’s butt and it’s better to have a girl like that on your team. Plus, if she has ambitions, it means she values more than just a relationship in life and that’s very important.
4. She’s supportive. She has to support you and your dreams. You can’t be with someone who puts down your ideas or makes them seem trivial. Don’t marry a girl who doesn’t believe in you. This person will be cheering you on for life so make sure she’s cheering for the same things you are.
5. She likes your friends. You can’t get rid of your friends for a girl. If you want a woman who’s wife material, then you have to find one who likes your friends and vice versa. They’ll be with you for life too, right? So it’s best if everyone gets along.
6. She’s opinionated. I don’t mean this word to be synonymous with “bitch” because it’s not. I mean she doesn’t change her opinion just to agree with you. You need a girl who can stand her ground and stick with her beliefs. Why? Because one of her beliefs will be you.
7. She doesn’t take your shit. Every guy needs a girl who won’t deal with his self-righteous attitude. She needs to keep you grounded and remind you of the important things in life just like you’ll do for her. Being able to hold her man down is definitely wife material